no attraction, just connection
January 5th, 2012 § Leave a Comment
All of us have probably watched one too many movies, or let’s say, chick flicks. We all have our fair share of corny-ness, if there’s any, or, the feel-good feeling of these movies. I, myself have watched a lot of chick flicks since I can remember. Not that it’s any problem to me, but what do these romantic movies tell us?
First, that we must totally be unique in our own way or stuff like that. And we’d have to be weird yet cute. I know, it’s a little bit strange. But the last statement was a joke. I mean, no one will never know who you’d end up with. Maybe with someone, maybe with no one. It’s just sad that we see such a lot of couples in the world, but they end up in sadness. Love’s not a fantasy, as what Summer implied. I guess it’s a state of mind, of course there’re a lot of “types” of love, like, family love, friendly love, or pet-love, love for music, food and photography, but that’s just me. There are a whole lot of things to love out there. Even with the silence in the night, the darkness is sometimes loved by some. When I was still a little girl, I always say that love is corny, stupid, cliche and all those bad things. I was stereotypical way back then. I overgeneralized love as a cheesy way, and not seeing the truth in it. The beauty in love is not the attraction between you and that person, it’s the connection. It’s the depth, the soul, the everything-ness of your love, it would seem a bit hard to comprehend, but hey, that’s what love is. It’s that very simple but complicated process one has to deal in life. Like the books and novels that I read before I sleep, I’d never know what love is until I’ll feel it. That’s what they always say, love is like the wind, you can’t see it, but you can feel it.
